As an intrinsically Chinese food, the dumplings represent Asian mothers\u2019 cultural ownership over their progeny. In Bao, <\/i>a Chinese mother sublimates her memories of her estranged son by mothering a bao<\/i> dumpling that comes to life. <\/span>In Crazy Rich Asians<\/i>, Nick and the protagonist Rachel partake in dumpling folding with Nick Young\u2019s old-money family and his icy mother Eleanor in Singapore. To emphasize the importance of dumplings to the “richer than God” matriarch, Eleanor and family fold dumplings by hand, not deferring to their countless servants. <\/span><\/p>\n Crafting dumplings is linked to maternal nurture and labor. The Bao<\/i> mother takes great, overprotective pains to keep her dumpling-kiddo safe and spoils him with food \u2014 until he becomes repelled by her smothering. Nick is not represented by an anthropomorphized cartoon dumpling, but dumplings carry a significance to Eleanor\u2019s motherhood. Folding in the pork fillings has parallels to the formation of the Young family and how their Chinese propriety must be maintained, outsiders treated with skepticism. That explains Eleanor\u2019s discontent when Nick left Singapore to live in America and then brought Rachel Chu, an Asian-American woman, to the Youngs\u2019 dining room table.<\/span><\/p>\n The shell of Chinese traditionalism, symbolized by the dumpling, becomes penetrated by Western intruders who date both mothers\u2019 sons. For Eleanor, it is Rachel, the New Yorker Chinese-American woman, who she surmised kept Nick away from his birthright in Singapore. In Bao<\/i>, the mother is distraught when her dumpling son brings home a stranger in the form of a blonde white fianc\u00e9e, a sign of his committing to Westernization. Innocent as it may be, Rachel\u2019s remark that the Youngs\u2019 dumpling activity is \u201cfun\u201d provides a hint of Eleanor\u2019s maternal anxieties: that Rachel is not Chinese enough for her son. Eleanor has to explain the dumplings\u2019 family meaning to Rachel and the need to keep tradition alive. <\/span><\/p>\n But through these dumplings, Rachel understands that Eleanor has dimensions to her coldness. When Rachel notices Eleanor\u2019s wedding ring, it prompts Eleanor to open up about her past and how she struggles to measure up in the eyes of her mother-in-law. Shaping dumplings with Eleanor gives Rachel more context to the value of tradition and family to both Eleanor and Nick. <\/span><\/p>\n Both Eleanor and the Bao<\/i> mother are agitated when their sons try to break further from their Chinese households, threatening the generational preservation of Chinese customs. Come to the infamous gasp-inducing scene where the Bao<\/i> mother swallows her dumpling son to keep him with her, which does not remotely fill her Empty-Nest-Syndrome hollowness. Bringing a blacker meaning to the \u201cI love you so much I could eat you\u201d parental clich\u00e9, her tearful reaction to swallowing her son demonstrates an epiphany: She suffocated her son so much that his expression of his individual identity, his Chinese heritage or his Westernization, could not thrive. The same is true for Eleanor\u2019s relationship with Nick, whom she seeks to keep on a tight leash in Singapore \u2014 but as Rachel notes, he would not function well in his Chinese homeland if he resented Eleanor for driving Rachel away. <\/span><\/p>\n Chinese culture seems to operate as an obstruction to these relationships, but it is the reconnection to Chinese heritage that restores bonds. Rachel rejects Nick\u2019s first proposal because it comes with leaving behind his Singaporean kin. Later, Nick proposes again, this time with his mother\u2019s ring, indicating Rachel is being welcomed into the family and Nick won\u2019t have to sacrifice his relationship with Eleanor after all. Likewise, we witness the reunion of the Bao<\/i> mother and her literal son, since he cannot thrive without his mother and makes amends with her over Chinese bread, a treat he previously rejected from her. <\/span><\/p>\n By the end of both movies, the sons\u2019 cultural ties are reconciled with new additions to their families. Both Rachel and the Bao-son\u2019s betrothed reconfigure themselves to respectfully adopt their significant others\u2019 Chinese identity. Bao<\/i> ends on the domestic bliss of an integrated family folding dumplings, the fianc\u00e9e\u2019s shoes off to signify adherence to Chinese traditions. At Nick and Rachel\u2019s engagement party, Eleanor and Rachel maintain a respectful distance. But it\u2019s probable that when Rachel is re-welcomed into the Youngs\u2019 Singapore estate, she will find herself molding dumplings again with Nick and Eleanor, making way for Eleanor and Rachel to mature their bond. By granting Rachel her wedding ring, Eleanor trusts Rachel with carrying on the dumpling tradition as well as supervising Nick\u2019s wellbeing as a succeeding matriarch. Chinese mothers understand that before you can leave your fingerprints in the dough, you must revere the family ties and what it took to keep them fulfilled and together. <\/span><\/p>\n Molding your cute little dumpling bun of a child takes care and practice. 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