{"id":13705,"date":"2020-03-25T08:52:09","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T15:52:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/?p=13705"},"modified":"2024-03-02T21:19:28","modified_gmt":"2024-03-03T05:19:28","slug":"with-a-friend-like-harry-looking-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/with-a-friend-like-harry-looking-back\/","title":{"rendered":"The Social (and Political) Thrills of <i>With A Friend Like Harry<\/i>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><em>With a Friend Like Harry<\/em> (2000) is in essence a thriller, but it chills with the creeping dread of a horror film. This tightly-plotted, slightly surreal French production has unfortunately slipped gently into obscurity. Twenty years after its release, director<a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0596962?ref_=ttawd_awd_7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <\/a>Dominik Moll\u2019s quietly chilling flick deserves another look. In a world where the wealthy seem increasingly determined to grab power as much as resources, this story of a man of means who uses his wealth to control others seems especially apt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it was released in 2000, <em>With a Friend Like Harry<\/em> was critically acclaimed and a festival darling. Along with several nominations and wins from foreign film organizations, it was nominated for the Palme d&#8217;Or at the Cannes Film Festival; at France\u2019s C\u00e9sar Awards, it won best actor (for leading man Sergi L\u00f3pez), director, sound, and editing out of nine nominations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Upon the film\u2019s release, critics noted the picture\u2019s Hitchockian influences. The combo of a supposed innocent and an obsessive psychopath does recall the dynamics of <em>Strangers on a Train<\/em> (1950), based on Patricia Highsmith\u2019s novel, and the music has passages that recall the quieter moments of Bernard Herrmann\u2019s <em>Psycho<\/em> (1960) score, or the swirling disorientation of his <em>Vertigo<\/em> (1958) soundtrack. Harry\u2019s manipulative ways also mirror the seductive but uneasy lure of Highsmith\u2019s Tom Ripley character. And all of these apparent influences have plots which feature immoral acts committed in the name of pursuing wealth and the power it brings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"With A Friend Like Harry - Trailer\" width=\"760\" height=\"570\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CiSP7T0bf2o?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The story begins with a family of five: Michel (Laurent Lucas), Claire (Mathilde Seigner) and their three young daughters, Jeanne, Sarah, and Iris (Victoire de Koster,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0131835\/?ref_=tt_rv_t8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <\/a>Laurie Caminata, and<a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0131836\/?ref_=tt_rv_t9\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> <\/a>Lorena Caminata) who are en route to their run-down country home. Crammed together in a stuffy car with no air conditioner, the children are cranky, and Michel and Claire are tired and frustrated. It is in this state that Michel meets former high school classmate Harry in a rest stop restroom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry immediately recognizes Michel, who doesn\u2019t remember him. Trying to dig up an image of Harry from his past, Michel is unnerved by this man with an eerie perma-grin who recalls so much about his youth. As unsettled as Harry makes him feel, Michel is convinced to have the mysterious man with his sleek luxury car and bombshell girlfriend Plum (Sophie Guillemin) over to their house for a drink. As that drink turns into an extended stay, Harry becomes increasingly, and disturbingly, influential over Michel. What no one but Harry knows is that he is willing to use his wealth, and the entitlement that comes with it, to go to extremes to mold his former classmate\u2019s life to his liking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry never questions his own judgment. When he tells Michel, \u201cI think every problem needs a solution,\u201d he clearly feels that he is the man to solve them. His wealth gives him confidence, but it also imbues him with an unearned feeling of power. In this way, Harry is much like the trio of billionaires who attempted to put the force of their fortunes into grabbing the presidency in the 2020 race. These men were uniformly stunned when many mocked their candidacies. Their wealth, and the power that came with it, gave them the impression that they were qualified to assume control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harry is equally certain that his perspective is the one the matters. When he buys the family an expensive SUV to replace their failing family car, he doesn\u2019t ask permission and he can\u2019t understand their discomfort with the expensive gift. When he says \u201cexcess is the only way to blossom,\u201d visions of daily Bloomberg flyers in the mailbox come to mind. Harry will use his money to mold lives in the most ostentatious way, but also in his way, oblivious and entirely lacking self doubt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"427\" src=\"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1-1024x427.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-13709\" srcset=\"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1-1024x427.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1-300x125.jpg 300w, https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1-768x320.jpg 768w, https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1-1536x640.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/with-a-friend1.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Michel\u2019s wealthy parents seem to share this belief with Harry. Without permission, they remodel the villa\u2019s bathroom into a gaudy pink womb of shiny tile and modern light fixtures. They have used their wealth to force their tastes upon the family without consideration for the style of the rest of the house or the desires of their loved ones. They also evoke the mindset of billionaires who ignore the basic needs of people, instead pursuing their pet visions like building colonies in space and making fantastical machines, all funded by exploited workers. Michel is clearly familiar with powerful people whose whims trump his own wishes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As much as Michel hates being controlled, he clearly finds luxury alluring. He retreats to that pink bathroom, the most opulent place in the villa, when Harry inspires him to write again. While he protests the gift of the car, he is easily seduced by the comforts it offers. Even knowing that he is being bought, he gives in. It is the sort of mindset that keeps the wealthy in power and often unchecked, if not always infallible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When Harry\u2019s plans start to fall apart on him, in a solitary moment he explodes in a terrifying rage. His assumption that his resources can buy him control has been proven wrong and it leaves him unhinged. The outburst is shocking, because up until then he has been eerily calm and confident in his dominance, if hinting at a simmering inner discontent which inspires violence that mostly takes place off-screen. It brings to mind the way Alfred Hitchcock compared a good suspense film to the steady tension of a steam engine. When the illusion of power is destroyed and that tension explodes, Harry is weakened.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the end, <em>With a Friend Like Harry<\/em> is insidious in the way it lures you into accepting an easy, efficient resolution. It seems that Michel has effectively stopped Harry\u2019s misguided helpfulness with little struggle. His family life appears refreshed and newly peaceful. They have settled easily into the comfort of the new car, savoring a taste of the life it represents. The sense of calm isn\u2019t complete though; Michel\u2019s placidity in the wake of the horrors he has experienced is as unsettling as Harry\u2019s quiet, determined smile. Harry is gone, but his philosophy remains. <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12029\" style=\"width: 21px;\" src=\"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/crookedc-01.svg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cWith a Friend Like Harry\u201d is <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.hoopladigital.com\/title\/12247618\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>streaming on Hoopla<\/em><\/a><em> and available for rental or purchase on <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.justwatch.com\/us\/movie\/with-a-friend-like-harry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>several VOD platforms<\/em><\/a><em>.&nbsp;<\/em><br \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With a Friend Like Harry (2000) is in essence a thriller, but it chills with the creeping dread of a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":596,"featured_media":13707,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1399,1381],"tags":[1422,162],"class_list":["post-13705","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-looking-back","category-movies","tag-looking-back","tag-movies"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/596"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13705"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":22873,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13705\/revisions\/22873"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13707"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13705"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13705"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/crookedmarquee.com\/stage8\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13705"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}